Finance Wellness

Money Lessons I Learned From My Mom

For most people, their mom is the first, and likely, most influential money role model. For me, my own money habits and financial goals have been shaped by my mom and her own money habits. Lucky for me, she has imparted her financial wisdom on me and it has allowed me to be smart about controlling my own financial future. Here are a few of the money lessons she has imparted on me. Hopefully, they help you as well!

Have a ‘Rainy Day’ fund

Sometimes life doesn’t go your way. We’ve all been there. Your car breaks down on Monday and your computer crashes on Tuesday and your actual bills still show up on Wednesday. You’ve got the money for those actual bills that show up in your mailbox each month, but that leaves you without a dime to spare for those unexpected expenses. What do you do? Call your mom and ask for a loan? (Don’t worry, I’ve done it.)

This is where that “Rainy Day” fund comes in. Start by coming up with a plan to save $1,000. That could be by putting away 10% of your income each paycheck or by depositing incremental amounts each month until you reach the goal. Once you get that first $1,000, set another goal to add the next $1,000 and continue doing this until you have 3–6 months worth of expenses saved. This will help you out when an emergency comes your way. Put this money in an account you can easily get to, such as a savings account.


Pay off your debts

Credit cards, student loans, car payments, house payments…the list goes on and on, right? All of that debt can be overwhelming, but, the important thing to remember is that you can pay it off with a bit of hard work and patience.

Start by listing out all of your debts. Take a look at your list and order your debt so that you can quickly see which is the highest amount owed and which is the lowest amount owed. Work to pay off one at a time, from smallest to largest. This will take time (read: years) so be patient. Just keep working at it!

In the meantime:

  • Do your best to pay for new items with cash when you can.
  • Don’t borrow any additional money.
  • Cut up any credit cards that are not absolutely necessary.


Invest with a goal of security.

It is important to plan for the future and that includes retirement. It’s never too early to start saving. Seriously! Talk to your employer about a retirement plan or open one at your bank on your own. Start putting 5–15% of each paycheck into this account. Your 65–year–old self will thank you.


Have the right attitude.

This lesson goes for most things in life but it is not often applied to finances. Having the right attitude could save you a lot of hardship and money problems. Always remind yourself, when making purchases to not have an “I want it!” attitude. This attitude often causes debt. And, as we talked about earlier, you’re working towards paying those off! So, keep in mind, making sacrifices now will help you reap the benefits later. Such as retiring before the rest of your friends. Perks!


Save even more.

I know you’re already saving for a rainy day and saving for retirement. But, yes, you should still be saving more. It’s a lot, I get it. But, it doesn’t have to be a hassle. Use this simple trick to save an easy $1,000 a year.

Week 1-10: Start with $1 and add an additional dollar each week so that on Week 10, you are saving $10.

Week 11: $15 / Week 12: $20  /  Week 13–19: $25/week  /  Week 20–21: $30/week

Week 22–31: $35/week

Week 32–33: $30/week  /  Week 34–40: $25/week  /  Week 41: $20 / Week 42: $15

Week 43–52: Start with $10 and subtract a dollar for each week so that on Week 52, you are saving only $1.


Learn More

Looking to learn more about saving, investing or just additional money lessons? Check out the following sites for professional financial wisdom to help you prepare for the future.

Do you have any good financial tips of your own? Share them with us below!

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  • Reply
    Cara Newhart
    June 8, 2017 at 2:43 pm

    These are all some really great tips. I definitely need to try to implement these into my money habits.

    XO, Cara

    • Reply
      June 14, 2017 at 12:44 am

      They work well for me! Hope they work well for you as well 🙂

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    Haute and Comely
    June 8, 2017 at 3:28 pm

    Great tips. Saving money is very vital. Having a clean credit score is even more important to securing a property. Thanks for sharing

    • Reply
      June 14, 2017 at 12:44 am

      I agree! A clean credit score is great to have!

  • Reply
    June 8, 2017 at 6:02 pm

    I love the weekly plan! Great post! What about investing outside of retirement?

    • Reply
      June 9, 2017 at 7:12 pm

      Right now, I am not investing anything outside of retirement, but it is something I want to look into more!

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    arita muhaxheri
    June 8, 2017 at 6:56 pm

    Save even more , I like that one 😛 very good strategy to keep track thanks for these tips <3

    • Reply
      June 14, 2017 at 12:44 am

      I like that one too! My mom is always reminding me 😉

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    Karen Gran
    June 8, 2017 at 9:55 pm

    In this day and age, it is so easy to swipe your card and pay later, however, this will cause your debt to grow and grow and grow. Credit cards should only be used if you can pay them off monthly otherwise use cash. Thanks for the info.

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      June 14, 2017 at 12:45 am

      Great tip! Using cash instead of credit cards is a smart way to keep track of your finances. Thanks for sharing!

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    Carissa Eva Stephanie Vikis
    June 9, 2017 at 3:36 pm

    Great tips! I actually need to start saving every week. I remember that it was so much easier to save when I was younger, but now I’m finding it more and more difficult!

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      June 14, 2017 at 12:46 am

      So true! It’s so hard now, and unfortunately I always need extra money more now than when I was younger. Just gotta put away what you can and go from there!

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    June 10, 2017 at 1:23 pm

    This is so handy for me right now! I really need to focus on saving money.

    • Reply
      June 14, 2017 at 12:46 am

      Good luck! Hope some of these tips help you out!

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